Prepare the Pudding Base:
In a large mixing bowl, whisk together the instant vanilla pudding mix and cold milk until smooth and slightly thickened (about 2 minutes).
Fold in the whipped topping and yogurt (if using) until creamy and fluffy.
Add the Mix-Ins:
Gently stir in the chopped strawberries, mini marshmallows, and cake cubes.
Mix until everything is evenly coated with the fluffy pudding mixture.
Chill:
Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour to allow the flavors to meld and the salad to firm up slightly.
Serve:
Spoon into bowls and garnish with extra strawberries or cake cubes if desired.
Best served chilled!